i'm 37 years old and married plus two kids ..then , i feel of a girl of age 21 years..listen to the story and tell me what to do..once that girl gave me a missed call on mobile and then she said sorry..i replied,it's ok..later she phoned me again wanting to know me more and more..she didn't know my face and who Faris is..but she loved my voice much..laater, i told her that i have a family but she didn't care..now, she is unable to live if i go away..everyday phones me many times..she cries if i shut down the mobile in her face..she feels so happy when i reply to her..i feel she wants to fly and dance as i speak to her...i don't know what to do with her...i can not be bad with her , also i don't wanna become a cheater in the same time...

also i'm puzzled..that girl does not need money or the like..only wants to talk to me..only she sends me love messages..only she wants to spend her time with me..only sleeps and dream of me..she is ready to do everything for me ..i mean she wants to take care of me as i'm not married..so, how that love come to us!!! i'm muslim and she is a christian..i'm old and she is young..why did she love me??!!! i'm not happy actually..i feel sad for her because she loved the wrong man,the married man..

she hides from her parent in the bed room so as to call me freely...if i tell her(i love you) she forgets her age and the life because of happiness..sometimes i feel she is crazy..she begs me to have my photos ..she only wants my photos..but i didn't send her any pictures...she has sent many photos of her to my mobile...i'm so puzzled,she is sexy and caring and young and so many guys wish to have her but she refused all guys and came to me,the wrong man...in fact, in Iraq the christian girls often want me..in the past, the similar stories happened to me...

i feel sad..i'm forced to tell her nice words because i don't wanna break her heart...when she calls me,she says:haaaaallloooo Faris as she begs me to reply..she cries if i don't answer...

one i didnt answer her frequent calls,the next days sent me a message telling that she is very sick..and so i called her and i heard her sick voice...that's why i'm puzzled , i don't know what to do..i answer or i don't answer to her calls daily!!!!

You should let your wife fix this small problem friend...

Just let your wife talk with this "love" sick girl... She shall be able to crucify that "love"...

Faris, again I remind you the sacred marriage, if you keep going on this journey, you are not good enough for your wife and you hurt her,your children and yourself, when she takes all luggage and leaves you!

Can you look into your own eyes in the mirror and feel you are proud of this?
If the answer is yes, then you failure totally as a husband and father.

If you can´t look at your own eyes and feel all is well, then you know what to do, just DO IT! Tell her to remove from your life directly, change phone number and tell her to never visit or contact you ever again, and you must be hard against her, if not, she will feel "that it is only words, not really meant", so be strong and decide whether your duty as a good husband and father is the best way, or a cheater as you are when continue this road.

Everything you hide from your wife is cheating's! Everything!
If you can speak and act openly with everything with your wife, then all is good.

So behave, I know you have started many flirts with girls around you, that has to be stopped as well.

Are you a husband?

Paul you are correct, and I say that with a small smile and laughter, actually the most anger by a wife will not be against the other woman, it will be directed to the husband, and never forgiven.

So why on earth accept this, if marriage is sacred, or why on earth get married if there´s not love and trust within each other?

I would for sure take a pan and hit the females head over and over again, then I should take a scissor, cut the man's clothes into pieces, ask for a divorce and search all care of the children for full-time alone.

A betrayed woman is the angriest animal on this planet Faris, have that in mind.
Deal with this fast, don´t think, just do it, and mean it.
I know you are able to do that Faris.

and I return your question like this;

You find out that your wife had a man responding love text's, phonecalls, etc etc, what should you do and think, if your wife did this Faris?